孩子之间的互相攀比不一定是坏事,但关键在于他们在比什么、他们该比什么,这需要家长正确引导。新学期开学第一天,儿子放学回家对我说:“爸爸,给我买个带拉杆的书包吧。”我说:“你的书包不是上学期刚买的吗?为什么又要买新书包?”儿子说:“我们班 Comparing children with each other is not necessarily a bad thing, but the point is that they are better than what they should be, and that’s where parents need to be properly guided. The first day of the new semester, my son came home from school and said to me: ”Dad, buy me a bag with a lever. “ I said: ”Your schoolbag is not just bought last semester? Why buy New school bag? “Son said: ” Our class