2015年10月,父亲因脑出血住院,所幸并无大碍。这让我的生活慢了下来。在博爱县人民医院照顾父亲之余,不值夜时,我在家翻看他的记事台历、进修笔记和家书,读来颇有意味,在文字里重新发现了父亲。我与父亲通信,始于1992年。起因是,我在博爱一中上学时,有次约请同学到家里玩,当他从外面回来,得知其中有女同学,“脸上一寒”(姐姐转述语)——为了解释,回到学校,我给他写了一封信。2001年之后,家里装了电话,我那时也已娶妻生子,双方就很少写信了。从1992年到2001年,从我十八岁到二十七岁,整整十年,家书记录了我的成长史,总字数有八万字左右。今整理1997年的父子家书,以期展现一个男生蜕变成男人的迷惘与喜悦,一个父亲化身为朋友的关爱与指导,一个家庭传承并发展的家教与家风。写信即写心。虽然纸质书信时代已渐行渐远,但如今年轻人面临的问题,与二十年前相比,并无太大改变,仍需用心面对。而这,或许是父子家书面世的意义之一。 In October 2015, my father was hospitalized for cerebral hemorrhage, fortunately, it did not cause any major problem. This slows my life down. In Bei County People’s Hospital to take care of my father, not worth the night, I looked at his home calendar memo notes, study notes and family books, quite meaningful to read in the text to find the father again. I communicate with my father, starting in 1992. The reason is that when I went to school fraternity, there are times about the classmates invited to play at home, when he came back from outside, learned that there are female students, “face a cold ” (sister remarks) - to explain, Back to school, I wrote him a letter. After 2001, I had a phone at home, and I had married my wife and children at that time, and both wrote very few letters. From 1992 to 2001, from my eighteen to twenty-seven years of age, my family history recorded my history of growth. The total number of words was about 80,000 words. Today, I sorted out the books of my father and son in 1997 in order to show the transformation and transformation of a boy into a man’s confusion and joy. The father’s incarnation as a friend’s care and guidance, a family heritage and development of tutoring and family style. Write a letter that heart. Although the era of paper correspondence has drawn away, the problems faced by today’s young people have not changed much from those two decades ago and still require hardworking. And this, perhaps one of the significance of the book published by father and son.