当别人坚持自己的行为方式或喜好时,你说那是固执;当你这么做时,你说那是意志坚定。当别人做事缓慢时,你说像乌龟爬;换作是你,你又说那是因为你喜欢三思而后行。当别人不喜欢你的朋友时,你说那是偏见;当你不喜欢别人的朋友时,你说那证明了你看人很准。当别人说出了你不愿意听到的事实,你说对方缺乏爱心;如果是你这么做,你又说你这是出于坦诚。 When others insist on their own behavior or preferences, you say that is stubborn; when you do that, you say that is determined. When others do things slow, you say like a turtle climb; change is you, you say that because you like to think twice. When others do not like your friends, you say it is prejudice; when you do not like other people’s friends, you say that proves you look very accurate. When someone says something you do not want to hear, you say that the other person lacks love. If you do it, you say you are out of honesty.