我儿子1岁3个月,不太爱说话,但什么都懂。看见地上有什么东西,他捡起来就放在嘴里。我说:“这个不能吃!”不听,说:“这个多脏啊!”下次捡起来还照样吃。还有,只要是他想要的东西,如果不给,他就坐在地上闹。我说:“这个你不能拿:”闹,说:“好孩子听话!”还闹。孩子这么小,我苦于不知如何和他说话,和他沟通。更怕他长大了不听话。当我看了《父母必读》第271期题为《让我思考,我就明白了》的文章,顿觉眼前一亮,如获至宝。我原来的担忧没有了,还从中获得了一个与孩子沟通的好办法——解决问题策略(希望别的家长也看一下)。文章中的这句话我也觉得特别好,“告诉我,我会忘记;教导我,我也许会记着;让我思 My son is 1 year and 3 months old and does not speak much, but understands everything. When he saw something on the ground, he picked it up and put it in his mouth. I said: ”This can not eat! “ Do not listen, said: This dirty! Also, as long as he wants something, if not, he sat on the floor trouble. I said: ”This you can not get: “ downtown, said: ”good boy obedient!“ The child is so small that I am struggling to speak to him and communicate with him. More afraid he grew up disobedient. When I read the ”Parents must read“ section 271 entitled ”Let me think, I will understand“ article, suddenly felt bright, such as the treasure. My original worry is gone, but I also get a good way to communicate with my children - to solve the problem strategy (I hope other parents have a look). I also feel particularly good in this article, ”Tell me, I will forget; teach me, I may remember; Let me think