人们常说:说真话容易,讲对话难;而只讲真话不讲对话的人,要想在社交中取得成功则是难上加难。这话并不是危言耸听。的确,就一般意义而言,在现实生活中,人们更欣赏说对话的人。 有人不赞成这个观点,认为在人际交往中,能实话实说是真诚所在,更何况在某种情况下,说实话是需要勇气的;那种说对话的人,肯定是巧舌之辈。正是由于人们不了解“真话”和“对话”的分野所在,因而在现实生活中,就有可能要遇到因说“实话实说”所带来的尴尬:说真话原本是无可厚非 It is often said that it is hard to tell the truth and to talk to the other, but it is even harder for those who tell the truth not to talk and succeed in socializing. This is not alarmist. Indeed, in the general sense, in real life, people appreciate the people who talk more. Some people are not in favor of this view, believing that being honest can be the point of truth in interpersonal communication, let alone under certain circumstances, it is courageous to tell the truth. Those who talk to each other must be clever. It is precisely because people do not understand the distinction between “truth” and “dialogue,” so in real life they may encounter the embarrassment of saying “tell the truth.” To tell the truth is understandable