“三言”中的许多篇章中有女性出现婚外情的故事。造成此现象的原因是多方面的,其中婚姻选择的不自由是一个最根本的因素;女性对自己丈夫的不满和家中丈夫经常外出导致女性闺房寂寞,是女性发生婚外情的重要原因;同时女性经济地位的提高和反封建礼教对人性束缚的社会思潮的影响也是明末女性自我意识增强的内在动力。“三言”中所表现出的对女性婚外情现象的思想倾向,既有严格的道德意识,又有一定程度的宽容和理解,表现了作者的情欲观。 In many chapters of “San Yan” there are stories of extramarital affair in women. There are many reasons for this phenomenon. Among them, the non-freedom of marriage is one of the most fundamental factors. The dissatisfaction of women with their husbands and the frequent outflow of husbands lead to the loneliness of female boudoir, which is an important reason for the extramarital affairs of women. The rise of status and the impact of anti-feudal ethics on the social trend of social bondage are also the intrinsic motivation for women’s self-awareness. “Sanyan ” in the expression of the phenomenon of female extra-marital affairs, ideological tendency, both strict moral awareness, but also a certain degree of tolerance and understanding, the performance of the author’s erotic view.