做人,是有个性好,还是随和好?交朋友,是交有原则的朋友,还是交有人缘的朋友?看一个地方的风气,是欣赏民风彪悍,还是圆融谦和?很多人有不同的选择,也有不同的回答。其实,在笔者看来,坚持与妥协是一个问题的两面,没有其中的任何一个,另外一个也很难成立。我们做人,如果没有点个性,没有点自己的坚持,没有点自己 A man, is a good personality, or easy-going? Make friends, is the principle of friend, or make friends with friends? See a local culture, is to appreciate the sturdy folk style, or harmony modest? Many people have different Choice, there are different answers. In fact, in my opinion, perseverance and compromise are two sides of a question. Without any one of them, the other one is also very difficult to set up. We are human, if there is no personality, no point of perseverance, no point yourself