再温驯的牛,如果它不口渴,就算把它带到河边,也不会自动喝水。对待孩子也是一样,催促孩子读书,或强迫他们打开书本,若是他根本不想吸收阅读的内容,一切都是枉然。如果您的孩子对“用功”二字望而生厌,您不妨利用其与用功无关的事,将孩子的反抗感转移到其他处,例如只让孩子自己 Tame cow, if it is not thirsty, even if it is brought to the river, it will not automatically drink water. The same applies to children, urging their children to read books or forcing them to open books. If he does not want to absorb what he reads, everything is in vain. If your child is annoyed with the word “hard work,” you may want to take advantage of what you do not have to do anything about it to move your child’s sense of urgency elsewhere, such as leaving your child alone