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从人性上说,人都是喜新厌旧的,而婚姻则要求人们天长地久;从感情上说,人是有感情的动物,而人的感情又是丰富的、难以琢磨的;从社会来说,人们处于现代社会给他们提供的广大和多方位的接触空间中,不接触异性是不可能的……从这几方面来看,出现婚外情似乎是可以理解的。在这里,我们无意评论“第三者”的是是非非,但是,由婚外情所引发的犯罪则不仅仅是个人的隐私,更是一个社会性的问题,它值得我们每一个成年人关注。人们常说“欲望是海”。茫茫世界里,我们无法杜绝欲望,但是庆幸的是,人都是理性的,用理智来掌欲望的舵,就能行好人生的船,愿你、我、他都是生活的好舵手。——编者
From the point of view of human nature, people are always resentful and old-fashioned, while marriage requires people to last forever. From the point of view of emotion, people are animals with emotions, and people’s feelings are rich and unpredictable. From the society, people are in In the vast and multidimensional space of contact that modern society provides them, it is impossible not to touch the opposite sex ... From these points of view, it appears that the extramarital affair is understandable. Here, we have no intention of commenting on the “third party” from right and wrong. However, crimes caused by extra-marital affairs are not just personal privacy but also a social issue that deserves our attention from every adult. People often say that “desire is the sea.” In the boundless world, we can not put an end to our desires. Fortunately, however, people are all rational. With a sense of righteousness, they will be able to carry life’s boat. May you and I, he are good helmers of life. --editor