一个朋友的季节观改变了我对春和冬的认识,在他看来,沉寂的冬天是最有力量的,是万物的萌动期和发情期,春天的生长是冬天积贮起来的力量在春天不可阻挡地释放。这冬的蛰伏和春的释放多像被人掩藏起来的情感,尤其是女性的情感世界,天然的柔弱敏感和男权制的压力,使得女性的情感埋得更深,起伏得更强烈。一个外表看起来安静平和的女性可能心里正历经排山倒海,一个最终选择冲出婚 A friend’s season concept changed my understanding of spring and winter, in his view, the silent winter is the most powerful, is the germination of all things and estrus, the spring is the accumulation of winter strength in the spring Irresistible release. This winter’s dormancy and spring release are more like hidden emotions, especially the female’s emotional world. The natural weakness and the pressure of the patriarchal system make women’s emotions deeper and more intense. A woman looks calm and peaceful looks may go through the heart, a final choice out of marriage