心理导语:爷爷、奶奶、外公、外婆的“隔代亲”常常让父母纠结:“隔代亲”是不是溺爱,是不是一定会阻碍孩子成长?是否该让祖辈们参与到家庭教养中来呢?许多年轻的父母都有这样的疑虑。现实生活中也不可能将祖辈们完全排除在家庭教养之外,因此他们经常隐隐担心或者有些焦灼不安。那么父母应该怎么做,才能让祖辈的隔代亲,对儿童不是带有伤害的爱,而是让他们因为大家庭的爱而更茁壮成长呢?首先,父母需要理解“隔代亲” Parents, parents and parents often tangle: “every other generation ” is not spoiled, is not it will hinder the child’s growth? Whether it should let the ancestors participate in the family To teach it? Many young parents have such doubts. In real life, it is also impossible to completely exclude grandparents from family upbringing, so they often become faintly worried or somewhat anxious. So what should parents do to enable their ancestors to have their loved ones from afar, not hurting children with love, but to make them thrive because of the love of extended families? First of all, parents need to understand that "