通过对当前儿童、青少年思想品德素质的现状及家庭思想品德素质教育中存在问题的分析，提出家庭思想品德素质教育必须选择恰当内容、采取灵活多样的途径和方法．增强教育的针对性和实效性,从而提高家庭思想品德素质教育的水平，以适应素质教育对家庭教育的要求. Through the analysis of the current situation of children and adolescents’ ideological and moral qualities and the existing problems in the ideological and moral quality education of their families, it is suggested that proper content should be chosen and flexible and diversified approaches should be adopted in family ideological and moral quality education. Enhance the relevance and effectiveness of education so as to improve the quality of family ideological and moral education in order to meet the requirements of quality education for family education.