人生不如意十之八九,当您在现实生活中遇到失意、挫折一时想不开的时候,不妨用自嘲来抚慰一下心灵,或许能使您放下思想包袱,走出困境。哲人说过,自嘲是一剂良药,可医心灵顽疾。传说在我国古时候,有个叫梁灏的文人,从小就立下志向要当状元。他屡试不中,受尽了别人的讥笑。但梁灏本人并不在意,他总是自嘲地说,我每考一次就离状元又近了一步。梁灏直到八十二岁才考上状元。他写诗自嘲道:天福三年来应试,雍熙二年始成名,待我白发头上满,且喜青云足下生。观榜更无朋济辈,到家唯有子孙迎。也知少年登科住,怎奈龙头属老成。良好的心态伴梁灏度过 Life is not satisfactory When you encounter frustration in real life, frustration for a while, may wish to use self-deprecating to soothe the soul, may allow you to put down the thought baggage, out of the woods. Philosopher said that self-deprecating is a good medicine, can cure mental illness. Legend has it that in ancient China, there was a literary man named Liang Hao, who aspired to be a champion from an early age. He tried again and again and was ridiculed by others. However, Liang Hao himself did not mind, he always ridiculed himself saying that every time I took a test, I was a step closer to the champion. Liang Hao was not admitted to the scholar until he was 82. He wrote poetry jokingly: Tenfu three years of examinations, Yong Xi two years ago became famous, until I white hair on the head full, and happy blue foot full. No more spectators standings, home only welcome children. Also know young Dengke live, Chennai leading is an aging. Good attitude with Liang Hao spent