1使一种交往具有价值的不是交往本身,而是交往者各自的价值。高质量的友谊总是发生在两个优秀的独立人格之间,它的实质是双方互相由衷地欣赏和尊敬。因此,重要的是使自己真正有价值,配得上做一个高质量的朋友。2人们常常误认为,那些热心于社交的人是一些慷慨之士。泰戈尔说得好,他们只是在挥霍,不是在奉献,而挥霍者往往缺乏真正的慷慨。那么,挥霍与慷慨的区别在哪里呢?我想是这样的:挥霍是把自己不珍惜的东西拿出 1 It is not the association itself that makes a relationship of value, but the value of the communicator. High-quality friendship always takes place between two outstanding independent personalities. Its essence is that both parties genuinely appreciate and respect each other. Therefore, it is important to make yourself truly valuable and deserve to be a good friend. 2 People often mistakenly believe that those who are socially enthusiastic are generous people. Tagore put it well, they are just squandering, not in dedication, and squanders often lack real generosity. So what is the difference between squandering and generosity? I think so: squandering is to take out what you do not cherish