显然,那种一味要求孩子听话,无条件服从长辈的家长,现在已经不多了。多数父母只希望子女能够遵从合理指导规范言行。然而,在实际生活中却有一些孩子显示出执拗的反向趋势。对于成人的意见,你要他这样,他偏偏那样;你越是反对或制止,他却要去尝试。一般说来,这种与父母或老师闹别扭的现象大都开始于少年期。过去很容易接受成人的指导,凡事都请教父母、老师的孩子,现在自作主张,“一意孤行”了。你说他几句,他就跟你争辩、顶撞,甚至采 Obviously, the parents who obeyed their children obediently and unconditionally obey their elders are now running out. Most parents only want their children to follow the principles of proper instruction and behavior. However, in actual life, some children show a backward trend of stubbornness. For the opinion of the adult, you want him to do so, but he does so. The more you oppose or stop, the more he wants to try. In general, this phenomenon of nuisance with parents or teachers mostly begins with adolescence. The past is very easy to accept the guidance of adults, everything to ask parents, teachers, children, now self-assertion, . You say he a few words, he will argue with you, hit or even mining