工作和生活中,一些人常常会以自己的眼光、标准来衡量别人,倘若对方与自己的标准一致,就认为是正确的、应该的;反之,则固执地认为对方是错误的,甚至是“不可理喻”的。殊不知,任何事物都没有绝对的定性,自己的认知也并非正确。因此,与人交往时,切不可以自己的标准要求别人。 In work and life, some people often judge others by their own eyesight and standards. If the other party is consistent with their own standards, they think it is correct and should be true; on the contrary, they stubbornly think that the other party is wrong and even “Unreasonable ”. As everyone knows, nothing is absolutely qualitative, their own knowledge is not correct. Therefore, when dealing with people, must not ask others for their own standards.