也许是因为在那个社会里,象这样的人和事是很少有、所以发生在我身上的这件事才显得“有些离奇”。我一生中最离奇的事?说来有二十年了,那时,我是个年轻孤孀。我的第一门婚事,为了讨父母高兴才嫁的人,他年纪比我大多了。我对他也不无感情,但是,是一种近乎子女对长辈的感情,只是尽尽义务,以 Perhaps it is because there are very few people and things like this in that society, so what happened to me seemed “a little bizarre.” The most bizarre thing in my life? Twenty years later, when I was a young loneliness. My first marriage, in order to discuss his parents happy to marry, he is older than I am. I have no feelings for him, but it is an almost child-to-elder’s feelings, just to do his duty to