19世纪英国著名教育家赫伯特.斯宾塞曾说:“教育的一个重要目的,就是教会孩子怎样去选择:选择什么样的方法、什么样的专业;发展哪部分爱好,放弃哪些别的爱好。所有这些选择都必须由孩子自己作出。只有做自己选择的事情时,遇到困难时他才能去忍耐、努力,成功的时候也才能真正享受到明智选择的喜悦。” Herbert Spencer, a well-known British educator in the 19th century, once said: "An important goal of education is to teach the children how to choose: what kind of method to choose and what kind of major; what is the hobby to develop and what should be given up All of these choices must be made by the children themselves, and only by doing what they choose can he endure hardship, work hard, and succeed at genuine enjoyment of the joy of wise choice.