编辑同志: 我的儿子刚上小学一年级。这么多年来,为了让他能健康地成长,我真可谓苦口婆心。但现在我发现孩子并不是很认真地听我讲,而且有什么心里话也不对我说,这种现象在他上学后就更明显了,请问我该怎么办呢? 北京白薇白薇同志: 天下能有哪个父母不爱自己的孩子呢?然而我们却经常见到这样的场面,父母和孩子在一起时,尤其是父母要教育自己的孩子时,总是自己滔滔不绝地讲,孩 Editor’s Comrade: My son just attended the first grade. For so many years, I have been earnest in my heart to make him grow healthily. But now I found that the children did not listen to me very seriously, and what my heart did not say to me, this phenomenon is more obvious after he went to school, how do I do? Beijing Bai Wei Bai Wei comrades: Which parents in the world can not love their children? However, we often see such a scene, parents and children together, especially when parents want to educate their children, they always talk about themselves forever, the child