①正常的社会交往,交往双方或多方,于地位上是完全平等的,情感上是完全自愿的,结果也应该是互利的,不存在任何让人恐惧或拘谨的理由。但在现实生活中,往往存在许多这样的情况:有的人心里很想与人交往,往往难以启齿,即使勉强交谈,也是心慌意乱,语无伦次,更有甚者,与陌生人眼神偶尔相对,也会脸红心跳,不知所措。 ① Normal social contacts, exchanges or contacts between two or more parties are entirely equal in status, emotionally completely voluntary and the result should be mutually beneficial. There should be no cause for fear or restraint. However, in real life, there are often many situations in which people sometimes think that they want to get in touch with others and are often unspeakable. Even if they barely talk, they are confused and incoherent, and occasionally they are occasionally opposed to the stranger’s eyes. Blush, overwhelmed