有些家长生怕孩子吃亏,无论什么事总把自己的孩子放在第一位。他们买来好东西任孩子独享;孩子与小朋友有了矛盾,那就非得找他家大人去理论一番不可。总之,他们的原则是:决不能让孩子吃亏!其实这些家长不明白,这么做才是真正使孩子吃亏了。因为这样做会影响孩子良好性格与品德的形成,使孩子习惯于只顾自己、不考虑别人,以后难以适应集体和社会的要求。现代行为科学家认为,人的智商与行为是人一生中最重要的影响因素。有些人长大参加工作,处处显得自私、贪婪、刻薄,不会宽容别人,凡事斤斤计较,其结果 Some parents fear children suffer, no matter what always put their children first. They bought something good for the children alone; children and children have a conflict, it is necessary to find his family adults to theory must not. In short, their principle is: Never let children suffer! In fact, these parents do not understand, this is the real loss of children. Because doing so will affect the children’s good character and moral formation, make the children accustomed to care for themselves, without considering others, the future difficult to adapt to the collective and social requirements. Modern behavioral scientists believe that human IQ and behavior are the most important influencing factors in human life. Some people grow up to work, everywhere selfish, greedy, mean, will not tolerate others, everything preoccupied, the result