泸沽湖畔纳西族摩梭人的婚姻习俗甚为奇特。这里的绝大多数成年人都各居母家,男不娶,女不嫁。男女之间只建立一种偶居关系,由男子夜宿女家,第二天早上再返回自己的母家。由于偶居男女之间彼此互称“阿注”,意即亲密的朋友伴侣。于是,人们称之为“阿注婚姻”。 他们的婚爱方式很特别。男女相识,一般由男子主动求爱。有托亲友转送礼物表达爱慕之意的;有当面向女子表示交友之情的:“你今晚有空吗,我到你家玩可以吗?”“我们交个阿注好吗?”。倘不反对,便可赠送头帕或腰带和其他装饰品,作为爱情的信物。于是,不必办什么手续,也无须举行任何仪式,男 Naxi Lugu Lake Mosuo marriage customs is very strange. The vast majority of adults here are living in their own homes, men do not marry, women do not marry. Between men and women, only a spousal relationship was established between men and women, who returned to their mother’s home the next morning. As a result of the mutual agreement between men and women called “A Note”, which means close friends and partners. So, people call it “A note marriage.” Their love of marriage is very special. Men and women acquaintance, usually by the men’s courtship. There is a transfer of gifts from relatives and friends to express the meaning of love; there when the face of the woman said the feelings of friends: “Are you free tonight, I can play to your house?” "We make a note good? If you do not object, you can give your headdress or belt and other decorations as a token of love. So, do not have to do what formalities, there is no need to hold any ceremony, man