这些年来,时不时有女读者跟我说,她们的男朋友偷偷跟别的女人来往,甚至上了床。当她们发现了,他发誓说,他爱的是她,跟另一个女人只有肉体关系,而且这种事再也不会发生了。她们总爱问我:“你觉得我应该相信他吗?我应该给他机会吗?”那个男人背叛的又不是我,我怎么看重要吗?我也? In recent years, female readers have told me from time to time that their boyfriends secretly visited other women and even went to bed. When they found out, he vowed that he loved her, had only physical relations with another woman, and that such a thing would never happen again. They always like to ask me: “Do you think I should believe him? Should I give him a chance?” The man is not betraying me, how do I think important?