美国的家长也望子成龙成凤 ,也会为孩子付出很多。但他们“龙与凤”的标准是成为一个“成功”的人 ,即 :尽自己的力做得最好 ,实现自我价值。美国也有“家庭即学校”的教育思潮。美国父母教育孩子 ,把他们看作平等的个体 ,尊重他 ,和他谈心 ,“建议或请”他做事 ,决不会“命令 American parents also succumb to success, but also for children to pay a lot. However, their “dragon and phoenix” standard is to become a “successful” person: to do their best to achieve self-worth. The United States also has an educational trend of “family is school”. American parents educate their children, treating them as equal individuals, respecting him and talking to him “suggest or ask him to do something, never”