成长是一件非常复杂的事情,也是一个不可逆转的过程。但我想,不论每个人成长的经历如何不同,他在成长过程中的前行姿势总是有大致相同之处的。大体上,我们成长时都要经历四种姿势,或早或晚。第一种姿势是昂首阔步。这时候,我们对未来是充满信心的,一种近乎盲目的自信让我们无所畏惧地大步向前,可是,这种姿势固然意气风发,却有着不可避免的痼疾:因为目光放得过远,我们往往忽略了脚下。在阔步前行时,我们会轻易地跌倒在无处不在的 Growth is a very complex thing, but also an irreversible process. But I think, no matter how different each person’s growth experience, his posture in the process of growth are always similar in general. In general, we have to go through four kinds of postures when we grow up, either early or late. The first posture is swaggering. At this time, we are full of confidence in the future. An almost blind self-confidence leads us forward without fear. However, although this attitude is of high-spiritedness, it inevitably has its own hysteria: We often ignore the foot. When striding forward, we will easily fall over everywhere