河北省大厂回族自治县王玉福问：有一五口之家，有母亲、儿子、儿媳及两个孙女（无民事行为能力人）儿子病亡，办丧丰收受亲友份礼6000多元。现婆媳之间对此笔钱归属发生争议，一方诉至法院。对此案如何处理，有四种不同意见：一、法律上没有份礼的规定，政策上反对丧事大操大? Wang Yufu, Dachang Hui Autonomous County, Hebei Province Q: There are 15 families with mothers, sons, daughters-in-law and two granddaughters (people without civil capacity) who have died of illness. There is a controversy between the cash-in-law between the pen money ownership, a party to the court. There are four different opinions on how to deal with this case: First, there is no legal requirement for courtesy and the policy is against funeral activities.