曾经看到过这样一句话:家庭教育的本质,就是家长与孩子的博弈。在儿子身上,我深深地体会到了这一点。由于挂职锻炼,我有很长一段时间身在异地,不能照顾家庭。本以为没什么大碍,但是儿子班主任孙老师的电话打破了生活的宁静。孙老师反映:儿子近来学习和生活的表现让人十分揪心。由于我不在家,丈夫工作太忙,外公外婆对儿子的放养式管理,让这个年纪尚小的孩子一下失去了行为标准,写完作业就玩,疏忽了功课。最近,他由于背不出课文,被老师严 Have seen such a sentence: the essence of family education, is the game of parents and children. In my son, I deeply realized this. I have been in a different place for a long time due to my job attachment and can not take care of my family. I thought that nothing serious, but the son of a teacher in charge of the class teacher Sun broke the quiet of life. Teacher Sun said: The performance of his son’s recent study and living is very worrying. Since I was not at home and my husband was too busy with work, my grandparents’ son-in-arms management of stocking let this young child lost her standard of conduct and finished her homework. She neglected her homework. Recently, he was strict with the teacher because he could not read the text