1.双方父母如果他(她)的父母还是把他(她)当小孩,希望你和他们一样哄着他(她),他(她)也很享受这种待遇,而你的“母性”又没那么足,以后会产生很多摩擦。如果双方父母相处不欢,连表面和谐都很难做到,也将成为问题。2.休息天怎样度过一方面,如果你休息天爱睡懒觉,他偏偏爱早起收拾屋子,还非把你给吵起来不可,吵架势在难免。另一方面,如果对方优柔寡断,总是定不下来周末两人一起干些什么,或者总是粗暴决定要干些什么,都会产生不快。3.有关孩子的讨论是否能取得共识婚前就这一 1. If parents of both parents still treat him or her as a child and hope you coax him (her) just like them, he or she will enjoy this treatment as well. Your “motherhood ”Not so full, will have a lot of friction in the future. If both parents do not get along well, even the surface harmony is difficult to do, will also be a problem. 2. How to spend the rest day On the one hand, if you love to sleep on a day off, he prefers to get up early to clean up the house, not to quarrel with you, arguing is inevitable. On the other hand, if the other party is indecisive, it will always be uncomfortable to always decide what to do with the weekend or always rudely decide what to do. 3. Whether the discussion of the child can reach a consensus on this before marriage