在我还不到三岁时,母亲就离开了我。在那无知懵懂的年龄,记忆是一片空白,我对母亲没有一点印象。从故乡老辈那里断断续续地了解到,父亲和母亲的故事如同电影《山楂树之恋》一样。那时,父亲是一名地质队员,在湖北宜昌找矿时认识了母亲。因为父亲的家远在四川成都,他常年在鄂西山区探矿,居无定所,又比母亲大十几岁,所以他们的结合并不被外公外婆看好。出嫁后,母亲依然住在娘家,带着我和大我三岁的哥哥,与父 When I was less than three years old, my mother left me. In that age ignorant ignorant, memory is a blank, I have no impression of the mother. From hometown where the elderly intermittently learned that the story of his father and mother as the movie “hawthorn love” the same. At that time, my father was a geological team member and met his mother when I was looking for a mineral in Yichang, Hubei Province. Because his father’s home is far away in Chengdu, Sichuan, he perennial exploration in the western Hubei mountains, no fixed abode, and their teens than their mothers, so their combination is not optimistic about the grandparents. After getting married, my mother still lives in her parents’ home, with my brother and I, who are three years old, and my father