各种具体的礼仪规范,是礼仪学习的重要内容;而在学习各种礼仪规范进而具体应用这些规范时,又必须准确区分礼仪规范的常式与变式。那么,何谓礼仪规范的常式与变式呢?让我们首先来看一个例子:男女授受不亲,礼也;嫂溺,援之以手者,权也。这段话出自《孟子·离娄》,意思是说,男女之间给予和接受东西时,不 Various specific norms of etiquette, etiquette learning is an important part of; learning a variety of etiquette norms and then specific application of these norms, but also must be the exact distinction between etiquette norms and variants. So, what are the rules and variants of the etiquette? Let us first look at an example: men and women give and take not to be pro-rituals; This passage from “Mencius Lou”, meaning that men and women to give and receive things, not