林语堂说,人生在世,还不是有时笑笑人家,有时给人家笑笑。这话说得极好。因为,道出了生活的真相。不过,人常常喜欢笑话别人,却不愿被别人看了笑话。喜欢把自己包裹得严严实实的,然后,看别人被大尺度地撕扯开。这种促狭,平添了几分阴暗。这样的人,当被别人笑话的时候,脸上会愈发挂不住。因为,在他们看来,自己心底有多阴暗,别人就会有多阴暗。一个村庄的土地庙里,供奉着土地公和土地婆的神像,门左右有这样一副对联,让人过目难忘,上联是:这一街许多笑话,下联是:我二老从不作声。 Lin Yutang said that life is alive, sometimes not smiling people, and sometimes to others smile. This remark is excellent. Because, revealed the truth of life. However, people often like to joke others, but do not want to be seen jokes. Like to wrap themselves tightly, and then, to see others are large-scale tear. This narrowing, adding a bit gloomy. Such people, when being joked by others, his face will become increasingly hung up. For in their opinion, how dark is in one’s heart, how dark is the others. A village temple of the earth, dedicated to land gods and land gods, there is such a pair of couplets on the door, unforgettable, the couplet is: Many jokes in this street, the couplets are: I never ever make noise.