妈妈的烦恼:我的儿子2岁9个月大,经常被比他小几个月的邻家小女孩儿欺负。今天又是这样,不仅玩具被抢走了,而且挨了打也不知道还手,他只知道在那儿哭。如果那个小女孩儿的妈妈不在场,我会让儿子打她的,因为我怕宝宝长大后会成为懦弱的人,被人欺负。不过,我对让宝宝还手的做法也很困惑,因为终究打人是不对的。但究竟要不要教孩子懂得“吃亏是福”呢?我该怎么教他正确处理老被同伴打这件事呢?我经常告诉他:“你不要主动打别人,但是别人打你,你就还手。”可是他还是老被欺负,这可怎么办呢? Mum’s Trouble: My son is 2 years old and 9 months old and is often bullied by a neighbor girl who is a few months younger than him. Today is the same, not only toys were robbed, but also beaten do not know fight back, he only know where to cry. If the little girl’s mum is not present, I will let her son hit her because I fear that when the baby grows up she will become a coward and be bullied. However, my confusion about how to get my baby back to life is not good after all. But what exactly do you want to teach your children to know is how to teach him to correctly handle the old being hit by his companion? I often tell him: “Do not take the initiative to hit others, but others hit you, You fight back. ”" But he is still being bullied, how can this be done?