美国社会心理学家费斯汀格,有一个很出名的判断,被人们称为“费斯汀格法则”:生活中的10%是由发生在你身上的事情组成,而另外的90%,则是由你对所发生的事情如何反应所决定。也就是说,生活中有10%的事情是我们无法掌控的,而另外的90%却是我们能掌控的。他举了这样一个例子:丈夫早上起床后洗漱时,随手将自己高档手表放在洗漱台边,妻 The famous American social psychologist Fisitinger has a well-known judgment that people call “the law of Fitinginger”: 10% of life is made up of things that happen to you while the other 90 %, Is determined by how you react to what’s going on. In other words, 10% of the things in life are beyond our control, while the other 90% are beyond our control. He cited such an example: her husband got up in the morning after washing up, readily put their own high-grade watches on the balcony, wife