广西——“面烟亲”广西河口瑶族男子的婚姻大都由父母包办。父母常常在暗地里为儿子物色人选,一旦发现中意的姑娘,就到女方家里见其父母。见面时,首先要递过一锅烟,然后才能提出结亲的事,否则,女方父母则不予理睬。当地称之为“面烟亲”。云南——“对烟亲”云南花腰彝族青年找对象是通过对歌的方式进行的。对歌一般在男方寨子里进行,当男子赢不了中意的姑娘时,可以请长辈歌手帮忙,而姑娘则必须依靠自己。男方 Guangxi - “smoke pro ” Guangxi Hekou Yao men marriages are mostly arranged by their parents. Parents often secretly identify candidates for his son, once found the favorite girl, went to the woman’s home to see their parents. When we meet, we must first hand over a pot of smoke before we can come forward to marry another thing, otherwise, the woman’s parents will ignore it. Local call Yunnan - “smokers ” Yunnan Huayao Yi youth to find the object is carried out by way of song. The song is generally carried out in the man’s stockade. When the man can not win the favorite girl, he can ask elder singers to help, while the girl must rely on himself. Man