既然人生有命,为人一世,都不由自主了。那么,“我”还有什么责任呢?随遇而安,得过且过就行了。人能不能自己做主,可以从自己的经验来说。回顾自己一生,许多事情是不由自主的。抗日胜利后,国民党政府某高官曾许钱钟书一个联合国教科文组织的职位。钟书一口拒绝不要。我认为在联合国任职很理想,为什么一口拒绝呢?钟书对我解释:“那是胡萝卜。”他不受“胡萝 Since life has a life, one life, are involuntary. Then, ”I “ What is the responsibility? People can not call themselves, can be from their own experience. In retrospect of my life, many things are involuntary. After the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, a top Kuomintang government official had given Qian Zhongshu a UNESCO post. Zhongshu a refusal not. I think it is ideal to hold office in the United Nations. Why did you refuse? The bell book explained to me: ”That is carrot.“ ”He is not" carrot