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家长需要为孩子做哪些事?这个问题家长们最喜欢回答:爱他、保护他、教他知识、喂他饭、监督他学习,甚至包括给孩子找对象、资助孩子买房买车……听上去非常无私。但要把这个问题变一变:孩子需要家长为他做哪些事?孩子们肯定会有一肚子的话要说:爱我、理解我、信任我、允许我犯错……听上去没心没肺。这就是传说中的代沟吗?家长究竟该为孩子做哪些事?或者说,家长不需要为孩子做什么?让我们来听听下面这位妈妈的教子经。
What parents need to do for their children? This question parents most like to answer: love him, protect him, teach him knowledge, feed him rice, supervise him to learn, including even for the children to find the object, to help children buy a house to buy a car ... Very selfless. But let’s change this question: What do children need from parents to do for him? Children will certainly have a belly word to say: love me, understand me, trust me, allow me to make mistakes ... it sounds heartless. This is the legendary generation gap? What parents should do for the children? Or, parents do not need to do for the children? Let us listen to the following mother’s teachings.