我母亲梅志将她的回忆录题为《往事如烟》,而章诒和女士怀念她的几位前辈之作则名为《往事并不如烟》。其实两人表达的都是一个意思:那些苦难的往事,希望它能如逝去的岁月般地、如烟云般地逝去。可是,这又怎能做得到呢?何况,那些往事也不应该被忘掉。列宁曾有过这样的话:“忘记 My mother, Mei Zhi, will make a note of her memoir, “Past Events,” while Ms. Zhang and Ms. miss her predecessors as “The Past is not as good as smoke.” In fact, they both expressed one meaning: those suffering stories, hoping that it would pass away as the years went by. However, how can this be done? Moreover, those past events should not be forgotten either. Lenin once had this saying: "forget