如果你结婚了,首先恭喜你;如果你结婚10年了,那就有登门求教的必要了。尽管中国目前的离婚率对美国而言只能望其项背,但仍不可忽视。婚姻关系虽没有达到岌岌可危的程度,可是离婚的风险正一路飙升。我们无法回避社会给婚姻带来的种种压力,只能求助于把婚姻的地基打得更深,筑的更牢,不至于让婚姻矛盾出现一道道裂缝,最后发展到土崩瓦解的难堪境地。 If you get married, first of all congratulate you; if you get married for 10 years, then there is a need to ask for help. Although the current divorce rate in China can only look back to the United States, it still can not be ignored. Although the relationship between marriages has not reached the precarious level, but the risk of divorce is soaring. We can not evade all kinds of social pressure brought about by marriage. We can only resort to playing deeper the foundation of marriage and building a stronger prison so that there will not be a crack in the contradictions of marriage and finally the embarrassment of disintegration.