中国有句谚语叫“多难兴邦”。挫折、困境确实可以使人精力耗竭,甚至一蹶不振,但它也可以助人成熟,把人推向成功.我国著名历史学家蔡尚思在年轻的时候也曾多次失业。一次被解聘后,他无事可干,便一头钻进了南京图书馆,利用一年多时间翻阅了数万卷的历代文集,收集了大量的资料,为他日后的研究打下了扎实的基础.因此,他的朋友称他“这段生活与其说是失业,还不如说是得业”。青年学生高考失利后,不少人心灰意懒,消极抑郁,甚至积郁成疾,精神异常;却也有不少 There is a Chinese proverb called “more difficult Xingbang ”. Frustration and dilemma can really make people exhausted or even fail, but it can also help people to mature and push people to success. The famous historian Cai Shangsi, who was a young man, has repeatedly lost his job. Once dismissed, he had nothing to do, he got into the Nanjing Library, using more than a year to read the tens of thousands of volumes of the collection of ancient papers, collected a large amount of information for his future research has laid a solid foundation Therefore, his friend called him “this life is not so much unemployed as it is to get employed.” After the failure of the entrance examinations for young students, many people are overly frustrated, negatively depressed, and even suffer from depression and mental disorders. However, there are quite a few