亲子共读当孩子与别人攀比时,首先说明孩子的心理开始有竞争的倾向了,想达到别人同样的水平或比别人更好。这个时候如果抓住这种心理,把孩子攀比的焦点转移到学习、创造、良好行为等方面,这会大大有助于孩子的心理发展。忌拿自己的孩子跟别的孩子来比。很多父母在训导孩子时,常会拿别的孩子跟自己的孩子比较,这样的刺激只会让孩子消极,并催生攀比心理。每个家庭的教育背景、生长环境都不同,也没有什么可比性。 Parent-Child Reading When children compare themselves with others, they begin by stating that children’s psychology tends to be competitive, and that they want to reach the same level or be better than others. This time if you seize this mentality, the children’s comparisons focus shifted to learning, creativity, good behavior, etc., which will greatly help the child’s psychological development. Avoid taking their own children to other children than to. Many parents in the training of children, often with other children with their children, this stimulus will only make the child negative and give birth to comparisons psychology. Each family’s educational background, the growth environment are different, there is no comparability.