说起人与人之间的相处,要想彼此之间相处得愉快,减少摩擦和冲突,最好要搭起“四道桥梁”。第一道桥梁是:见面三句话。中国人说,见面三分情。大家有缘相见,为了表达我们的友善,诸如你好、今天很好、今天天气很好,或是你来了、你辛苦了、请坐等赞美的语言,像香水,一滴能使四周弥漫迷人的香气。第二道桥梁是:相逢要微笑。不论是故旧或新交,一张有表情、有笑容的脸孔,使人如沐春风,彼此心无城府地笑谈人间事。一个肌肉紧绷的人,就像一朵失去颜色和香味的花,得不到别人赞赏的眼光。第三道桥梁是:生气慢半拍。如果感觉自己如愤怒的火山即 Speaking of the relationship between people, in order to get along with each other pleasant, reduce friction and conflict, it is best to put up “four bridges.” The first bridge is: meet three sentences. Chinese say that meeting a third of love. We all know each other, in order to express our friendliness, such as Hello, today is very good today, the weather is good, or you come, you worked hard, please wait for the language of praise, like perfume, a drop of enchanting aroma. The second bridge is: meet to be smiling. Whether it is old or new, an expressive and smiling face makes people feel invincible and talk to each other about human affairs. A muscle-tense man, like a flower of loss of color and fragrance, can not be admired by others. The third bridge is: half a beat angrily. If you feel like an angry volcano that is