近日的北京校园霸凌事件又扯出了一个老话题:当孩子受到欺凌时要不要教孩子打回去?教孩子打回去,当然是一个常规的逻辑。但这个问题之所以让万千家长揪心,是因为它的可操作性差,往往只是家长的一厢情愿。你爱孩子,还是爱面子在去接孩子放学的路上,我不止一次听到家长训斥孩子:“他打你,你为什么不打他?”通常,被训斥的小孩儿一脸委屈地 The recent incident in Beijing’s campus bullying raises an old topic: Do you not want to teach children to fight back when they are bullied? Teaching children to fight back is, of course, a regular logic. However, the reason why thousands of parents worry about this problem is because of its poor operability, which is often just the wishful thinking of parents. Do you love children, or love the face in the pick-up children to school on the road, I heard more than once the parents reprimanded children: “He hit you, why do not you hit him? ” Usually, being reproached child grievances