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谈恋爱,从相识开始,被两个人生生得谈出感情,那时,“谈”是非常美的爱情表白。结婚后,“谈”在千百个琐碎的日子里,逐渐演变成拙劣而又攻击性的表白。虽然我们的初衷是美好的,可是几次三番下来,我们被他的三言两语逼到语无伦次,逼到互相伤害,逼到埋头隐泣……为什么我们如此撕心裂肺的谈判到头来总是悲剧收场?答案是——因为爱。屡次输掉谈判,输掉对爱的坚持,这是我们谁也不愿意见到的。那么咱们再也不要缄默退让,不要委曲求全,现在就开始学习谈判技巧,让他不动声色就乖乖地跳进我们甜蜜的陷阱里来?
Fall in love, from the acquaintance began to be two people talking about life and life, then, “talk” is a very beautiful love confession. After marriage, “talk ” in hundreds of trivial days, gradually evolved into a poor and offensive confession. Although our original intention was good, but several times we were forced to speak incoherently by his repeated words and phrases, forcing us to hurt each other and forcing us to weep ... Why is this traumatic negotiation always ending in tragedy? The answer is --because of love. Repeatedly losing the negotiations, losing the love of perseverance, this is none of us want to see. Then let’s not be silent again, do not compromise, and now began to learn negotiation skills, so quietly obediently he jumped into our sweet trap?