不久前的一次同学聚会,我惊讶地发现竟有八位同学离婚,有一位同学的婚姻正岌岌可危。说岌岌可危,是因他目前正处在犹豫之中。这位同学现是一电脑公司的老总,应属于那种成功人士。聚会后不久的一个星期天,他约我到蔡铺喝茶。我们叙说同学时的趣事,也谈各自的工作生活,当说到他的家庭时,神情突然变得黯淡了,他说结婚十几年了,表面看显得很幸福。可只有他们自己知道怎么回事。平时和妻子很少交流,每天说的话就那么几句公式化,两人各干各的,生活平淡得没有一点激情,为了逃避,他常常故意不回家,他老婆也从不问他到哪去了、干什么。他感到有茫然和失落。他感觉他老 Not long ago, a class reunion, I was surprised to find that as many as eight students divorced, a classmate’s marriage is precarious. Said precarious, because he is currently hesitant. The classmate is now a CEO of a computer company, should belong to the kind of successful person. Shortly after the party on a Sunday, he asked me to Caipu tea shop. When we talk about classmates’ interesting stories and talk about their own work and life, when suddenly speaking we are talking about his family, the expression suddenly dimmed. He said that he has been happy for more than a decade after getting married. Only they know what’s going on. Usually and his wife rarely communicate each day to say so a few formulations, the two of the various, life is not a little passionate, in order to avoid, he often deliberately not go home, his wife never asked him where to go What are you doing? He felt dazed and lost. He felt he was old