读书、求知,本应跟吃饭充饥、穿衣御寒一样,是必然、自然之需。闹到要用各种手段去逼、去诱,就是一件悲哀的事;而更为悲哀的是,我们不去寻找产生这种悲哀的原因,或是找到而不思解决,反而还把注意力集中在“逼”和“诱”的新法的制造上。我们常说推己及人、将心比心。教育孩子也用得上这八个字。如果做家长的多想想自己做小孩时的心情,当教师的多想想自己做学生时的心情,我们的教育或许就会理性、本性、自然得多。比较而言,一方面,现在的孩子要比以前的孩子聪明得多;另一方面,现在的孩子又要比以前的孩子难管得多。所以,现在做家长和当教师的,就要在“管”上多花些心思和功夫。聪明,辨识能力就相对要强些。这就要求做家 Reading, learning, should have to eat with hunger, dressing the same cold, is inevitable, natural needs. When it comes to using various means to force and lure, it is a tragedy; more sadly, we do not search for the cause of such tragedy or find and not to think of it. Instead, we pay attention to The force is concentrated on the manufacture of a new law that “compels” and “lures”. We often talk about pushing ourselves and others, and we will be more concerned with our heart. Educate children to use these eight characters too. If parents do more to think about their feelings when they are children, when teachers think more about how they feel when they are students, our education may be more rational, more natural and naturally more natural. In comparison, on the one hand, today’s children are much smarter than their former children. On the other hand, children nowadays have much more control than their old children. Therefore, as parents and teachers now, we should spend more time and effort on the “tube”. Clever, relatively strong ability to identify more. This requires a home