我们可能经常会听到学生抱怨:某某班主任讲的话太绝对了,令人难以接受;某某班主任讲的话太刺人了,一点都不给人面子;某某班主任讲的话太自负了,眼里根本没有其他人……如此看来,说话留有余地在师生交往中是一件重要的事情,不能轻视。一一些班主任与学生谈话时,不大注意方式方法,自以为真理在握,摆出一副师道尊严的样子,求一时之痛快,说话劈头盖脸、盛气凌人、不留余地,不顾及学生的面子、尊严和感受,说出一些令学生 We may often hear the students complain: Some class teacher talk too absolute, unacceptable; a certain class teacher spoke too stingy, not at all face to face; a class teacher speak too conceited, eye There is simply no other person ... So it seems that there is room for speaking in the interaction between teachers and students is an important thing that can not be ignored. When some class teachers talk with students, they pay little attention to ways and means, take self-truths as their own grounds, show themselves as a dignified teacher’s way, seek quick answers, speak with slightest glimpses of face, domineering, indifferent to the students’ face and dignity And feel, say something to make students