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做父母的看到这个题目可能会惊讶:我们怎么会去教自己的小孩说谎呢?事实上,对于儿童的有些行为采取了不良的、不正确的教育方式。就是无意识地起到了教会儿童的不良行为习惯的作用。请看以下几种情况:一、说实话受到惩罚。一个小女孩5岁时,一次不小心将家中一个工艺品小瓷马打坏了,待妈妈回到家后,她就将实情告诉了妈妈,不料妈妈竟打了她两个耳光,训斥她为什么打坏了东西。小女孩吃了一次亏以后。知道了说实话要受到惩罚。一次又不小心将碗打破,她就告诉妈妈说是家里的小猫把它弄落在地上的,果真这次妈妈没有怪她打她。又一次她在家玩玩具时,将玩具搞坏了,结果告诉妈妈说是某一小同学搞坏的,这时妈妈只怪了她也没打她。就这样,她学会了说谎。这个例子告诉我们:小孩做错了一些
Parents who see this subject may be surprised: how can we teach our children to lie? In fact, some of the behavior of children to adopt a bad, incorrect education. It is the unconscious play of the church children’s bad habits. See the following situations: First, to be honest to be punished. At the age of 5, a little girl accidentally knocked down a handicraft porcelain horse at home. When her mother came home, she told her the truth. Unexpectedly, her mother hit her two slap in the face and scolded her for breaking Something Little girl after eating a loss. I know the truth to be punished. Once again, she broke the bowl. She told her mother that it was the house kitten that had brought it to the ground. If this mother did not blame her for playing her, Another time she was playing toys at home, the toy ruined, the result told my mom that is a small classmate ruined, then her mother blame her she did not hit her. In this way, she learned to lie. This example tells us: children do something wrong