在婚姻里修行的人都知道,婚姻里的人并不是越能干就越好。朋友刚结婚时,凡事喜欢大包大揽,老公的事儿更不在话下。大到公司里的人际关系、工作安排,小到家庭琐事,她都要插手。她不怕麻烦,不怕劳累,忙得像一只陀螺。别人看着眼晕,她却觉得心里充盈着幸福和快乐。她常说,两个人相爱,就应该爱得毫无保留。可是她忘了,老公亦是一个有思想的人,他有自己考虑问题的角度和独特的思 People who practice in marriage all know that people in marriage are not as good as they can. When a friend just got married, everything like a big bag, her husband’s thing not to mention. Big to the company’s interpersonal relationships, work arrangements, ranging from small household chores, she must intervene. She is not afraid of trouble, not afraid of fatigue, busy like a gyro. Others looked dizzy, but she felt filled with happiness and happiness. She often said that if two people fall in love, they should love without reservation. But she forgot, my husband is also a thinking person, he has his own point of view of thinking and unique thinking