说到青春期的爱情,很多人都不理解,将其称之为“早恋”。人们普遍认为处于青春期的孩子们不应该有爱情,只应该有学业,爱情的出现肯定会影响到学业,所以将“早恋”视为洪水猛兽。然而,这样的理解没有尊重人的发展规律。今天,我们要从人类发展的角度来看看青春期的孩子为什么会有爱情,爱情对于一个人的情感发展有着怎样的积极意义。只有明白了这些,我们才能够接纳自己青春期的爱情。 When it comes to adolescent love, many people do not understand it, call it “puppy love.” It is generally believed that children in adolescence should not have love, only should have a school, the emergence of love will certainly affect the academic, so “love” as a scourge. However, such understanding does not respect the law of human development. Today, from the perspective of human development, we have to see why adolescent children have love, and what kind of positive meaning love has for a person’s emotional development. Only understand this, we can accept their adolescent love.