我和女友相约午餐,超过约定时间很久她依然没到,只收到潦草的微信:病人家属谈话,15分钟后到。我们相识多年,她是一名妇产科医生、业余面包师,我常常说她是医生中的女文青,既扭转了我对女医生高冷的印象,也纠正了我很多矫情的看法——在生死面前,我们纠结的绝大多数问题其实不是个事儿。 I had a lunch with my girlfriend, and after a long period of appointment, she still did not arrive. She only received a scrawled WeChat: family members talked and arrived in 15 minutes. We have known each other for many years. She is an obstetrician and gynecologist, an amateur baker, and I often say that she is a young woman doctor in a doctor. This not only reversed my impression of a high female doctor, but also corrected many of my hypocritical views - In the face of life and death, most of the problems we are entangled with are actually not a problem.